Monday, October 21, 2024
Don't Wait in Ambush
Don't Wait in Ambush
The Tibetan version of this slogan literally says "Don't ambush", that is, wait for somebody
to fall down so you can attack. You are waiting for that person to fall into the trap or
problem you want or expect. You want them to have that misfortune, and you hope that
misfortune will take place in a way which will allow you to attack.
If you are having a disagreement with somebody, you don't usually attack him or her right
away because you don't want to be in a powerless position. Instead, you wait for him to fall
apart, and then you attack him. Sometimes you pretend to be his adviser, and you attack
him in that disguise, pointing out to him how wretched he is. You say " I have been waiting
to tell you this. Now you are falling apart completely, I am going to take the opportunity to
tell you that you are not so good. I am in much better shape than you are." That is a sort of
opportunism, a bandit's approach. That bandit's approach is the meaning of waiting in
ambush, which happens quite frequently.
From Training the Mind & Cultivating Loving-Kindness by Chogyam Trungpa
Don't Wait in Ambush
The next one is "Don't wait in ambush," yet another "naked truth" slogan. You have been
taught that you should be a nice person; on the other hand, you don't feel so nice. Maybe
you know something about your husband that he doesn't know you know. You keep it up
your sleeve, waiting for just the right moment to spring it on him. One day you're in the
middle of a big argument, very heated. He has just insulted you royally. At that moment
you bring the ace down from your sleeve and really let him have it. That's called waiting in
ambush. You are willing to be very patient until just the right moment comes along, and
then you let someone have it. This isn't the path of the warrior, it's the path of the coward.
Not only do you want to "win"; you aren't even willing to communicate. The aspiration to
communicate with another person-to be able to listen and to speak from the heart-is what
changes our old stuck patterns.
From Start Where You Are : A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chodron
Don't Wait in Ambush
When someone has caused you trouble, the tendency is to fix it in mind and never forget it
though many years go by. When there is an opportunity to ambush the person and to return
the injury, revenge is taken. Give up this approach and be as helpful as you can in your
response to troublesome situations. For the kind of trouble caused by demons, don't cling to
the problem, but work only on love and compassion.
From The Great Path of Awakening : An Easily Accessible Introduction for Ordinary People
by Jamgon Kongtrul, translated by Ken Mcleod
Do Not Wait at the Narrow Passageway
Picture a scene from a western, or from the highlands of Tibet: bandits waiting in ambush at
a narrow pass, where the victim has no chance of escape. To really damage someone, one
waits till one's intended victim is most vulnerable. What we are told to avoid here is biding
our time to be especially hurtful, lashing back at someone maybe weeks or months after
they have injured us, whether physically or verbally.
On first hearing verses such as this we may assume they do not apply to us. Obviously, this
is meant for malicious people, and we are not among the bad guys. Perhaps this initial
response is honest; some of us may hold no grudges. If so, we need not be concerned with
this right now; we have certainly practiced well in the past, either in this or previous
lifetimes. Let us focus instead on problems that are relevant.
But our initial response may not be very insightful. In meditating on this pledge as well as
the others, the point is to examine our past experience and try to recall: Have I done this
kind of thing before? What was the context? What prodded me to do it? What were the
results? Do I still have this tendency? And in the present, any resentment still active should
be brought to light. Am I anticipating revenge? There are ways of getting back at others
more subtle than standing at the ready with a shotgun. We need to check for ourselves
whether each pledge is pertinent for our present situation, but they are all worthy of clear-
minded, honest introspection that does not rely on the initial response, "Who, me?" Maybe,
after more reflection, we may say, "Well, yes, at times." This does not mean that we are
evil and vulgar, but simply that we have some work to do.
Excerpted from: The Seven-Point Mind Training(first published as A Passage from Solitude :
Training the Mind in a Life Embracing the World), by B. Alan Wallace.
Don't Wait in Ambush
'Ambush,' in this case, means remembering the harm done to us by others and biding our
time for a moment of weakness when we might strike back, seeking the help of the
powerful or even resorting to witchcraft, and so on. We should relinquish any thoughts of
this kind.
From Enlightened Courage, by Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche. Copyright 1993 by Editions
Padmakara
follow your curiosity and passion.
My own best advice is to young writers is: follow your curiosity and passion. What fascinates you will probably fascinate others. But, even if it doesn't, you will have devoted your life to what you love. An important corollary is that it's no use trying to write like someone else. Discover what's uniquely yours.
DIANE ACKERMAN
Sunday, October 20, 2024
Hot Pepper Picking Guide (You are here!!)
Community-Supported Agriculture
Generally speaking, peppers can be harvested at any stage of ripeness, as long as the fruits feel firm and have a glossy sheen. Hot peppers generally get hotter (and change colors, usually from green to orange, red, or purple) the riper they get. Additionally, peppers tend to get spicier in hot, dry conditions; a cool, wet season will make for milder peppers.
We encourage you to wear gloves when slicing your peppers, and avoid rubbing your eyes, mucus membranes, or other sensitive areas. Also thoroughly wash your knife, cutting board, and anything else the peppers have touched with lots of warm, soapy water. If you find that a pepper is too hot for your tastes, capsaicin (the chemical that makes peppers hot) can be dissolved in oils (such as vegetable or olive oil), dairy products, soap, or alcohol. (Unfortunately water will not help, as capsaicin, like oil, is hydrophobic.) Be careful, have fun, and enjoy your taste tests!
- Czech Black: An heirloom from the Czech Republic, this pepper has fruits so striking that sometimes they are just worth looking at. Black when immature, the 2” long conical peppers ripen to a lustrous dark-red garnet color. Mild, juicy, thick-walled flesh runs with a cherry-red juice when cut. The heat, which is a bit milder than a jalapeño, is in the ribs and seeds. Can be candied like a citrus peel for a spicy holiday treat. Great eating at any stage.
- Jalafuego: Jalafuegos are a super-sized and slightly spicier variety of the more traditional jalapeño peppers. Instead of being 2"-4” size, these are 4"-6" long, making them perfect for jalapeño popper recipes. Peppers can have a range of pungency from moderate to high heat, depending on the pepper. Commonly picked and consumed while still green, if allowed to fully ripen they will turn red, orange, or yellow. Smoked and dried red peppers are known as chipotles. Other common uses include being stuffed with meat or cheese (jalapeño “poppers”), made into jelly, served with mixed drinks, added to salsas, or included in Vietnamese dishes such as pho and bánh mì.
- Matchbox: This Thai pepper has fiery red fruit clusters and strong heat and flavor. Two-inch long fruits are very colorful and can sometimes make the plant look like a Christmas tree. This welcome descendant of "Super Chili" was 8 years in the making and has a similar heat.
- Paper Lantern: Elongated and wrinkled, this habañero-type pepper has red lantern-shaped fruits that are 3"-4" long. Harvest green for milder spice, or when ripe at orange to red. Caution: VERY HOT! You may wish to use gloves when preparing, and avoid touching your eyes, mucous membranes, or other sensitive areas. Often added whole to curries or soups, or cooked down for hot sauce. Great for seasonings, salsa, or roasting, their thin walls also make them ideal for drying.
- Shishito (Mellow Star): Japanese pepper for cooking or salads. Heavily wrinkled fruits are thin walled, usually mild (no heat) when green and slightly sweet when red. Popular in Japan where the thin walls make them particularly suitable for tempura. Also very good in stir fries or sautés or eaten alone with oil, salt, and pepper. In Asia, fruits are often cooked green, but they also may be used red. Thinly sliced, the red fruits are excellent in salads and coleslaw. Note: Proceed with slight caution, as one out of ten peppers is hot!
December 2, 1948 . - T. C. Boyle
Life is tragic and absurd, and none of it has any purpose at all. T. C. Boyle
Sometimes, we find common ground; more often, we don't.T. C. Boyle
What higher art does is to invite us in and allow us to make decisions. T. C. Boyle
I am a worrier. I worry about the state of our country, of the world, of our species. Every day seems to deliver a new nail to hammer into our collective coffin. T. C. Boyle
It's hard to say how certain stories just punch us in the heart and the brain at the same time at the end. I suppose that's what we're all looking for. But each story has its own valence, its own way of saying goodbye to you. T. C. Boyle
The compulsively readable events of my life occurred mainly in infancy, and it's been pretty humdrum ever since. T. C. Boyle
One of the reasons I've been able to be productive is that I want to do everything. T. C. Boyle
You want, as an artist, to be pushing yourself to do what you haven't done before. T. C. Boyle
I can't fathom writers married to writers and musicians married to musicians. There's your enemy in bed beside you. T. C. Boyle
In previous generations, there was purpose; you had to die, but there was God, and literature and culture would go on. Now, there is no God, and our species is imminently doomed, so there is no purpose. We get up, raise families, have bank accounts, fix our teeth and everything else. But really, there is utterly no purpose except to be alive. T. C. Boyle
I'm not looking ahead joyfully to the rest of my life or the future of the human race. I've always written about man as an animal species among other animals, competing for limited resources. Our population is exploding. Our environment is dying. Science has debunked God. T. C. Boyle
What is your identity, and how do you know who you are if you don't have language? T. C. Boyle
My job is to engage, entertain, work out my life, tell a certain truth. T. C. Boyle
I can't read novels while I'm writing a novel, because somebody's voice creeps in. T. C. Boyle
I worry about everything in the world, and it's just too much for anybody to think about, so I have my art as my consolation. T. C. Boyle
This is why fiction is an art, and life is not - how much more affecting is the lie than the truth. T. C. Boyle
It's just my natural way - to be funny. I don't know why that is. But as I've said, humor is a quick cover for shock, horror, confusion. The critics hate funny writers for the most part. They think funny is not serious, but I think that funny can be even more serious than nonfunny. And it can be more affecting, too.
T. C. Boyle
I describe myself as an environmentalist not because I'm marching in the street with placards but because I like to be in the woods by myself. T. C. Boyle
Art saved me. It may sound corny, but it's true. T. C. Boyle
The novel is a seduction; a reader has to be seduced. T. C. Boyle
I think, if I'm doing my job correctly, I'm presenting a scenario for you as the reader to engage with on your own. I mean, that's what the best art is supposed to do. It's not supposed to be political. I think if you read all my books, you know where I stand, pretty much. T. C. Boyle
I never go anywhere without a book for fear of being stuck in line in front of the theater or strapped down in the dentist's chair and being bored witless. Thus, I read everywhere. T. C. Boyle
I've never really been met with indifference, where they say, 'Who cares?' I think that's what good art is supposed to do. It's not supposed to make you feel good about your own prejudices and your own values; it's supposed to open you up in some way and get you outraged or make you happy or make you sad or whatever it's going to do. T. C. Boyle
Every story is organic, and every story finds its own ending. T. C. Boyle
It's true that none of my characters are admirable. But maybe I'm primarily a satirist, and a satirist needs to hold up what's not admirable. T. C. Boyle
I do not want to repeat myself. I want to reach for something I've never attained. This is the excitement of art. T. C. Boyle
I really like the power of stopping the laughter and turning it to horror. T. C. Boyle
Now that we all live in a bad '70s sci-fi movie, I am made to understand the tyranny of the machines every minute of every day. T. C. Boyle
I read widely - for news, the arts, science, for entertainment, and the value of being informed - and, as a fiction writer, I can't help transposing what I learn into the scenario for a novel or story. T. C. Boyle
If we lose sight of the fact that writing is entertainment, then writing is doomed. T. C. Boyle
I am mad for nature writing. I want to get inside the head of every creature in the world, even ants. T. C. Boyle
Of course all novelists are egomaniacs and want to draw everyone to their fold just like any other preacher. The snake-oil peddler, the false prophet, all of this is fascinating to me. But I certainly hope that I'm more humane than that. T. C. Boyle
I don't care if the audience is 600 Saul Bellows; I'm going to knock them dead with a comedy routine. I'm out there as a missionary for literature because, if people laugh and enjoy themselves, they might actually do something as bizarre as reading the book. T. C. Boyle
I've always written about heroes and wondered who they are. T. C. Boyle
Science has killed religion. There's no hope for the future with seven billion of us on the planet, and the only thing you can do is to laugh in the face of it all. T. C. Boyle
Books are up against TV and movies and video games and a multimedia society that is so busy that people don't have contemplative time any more. I worry deeply about this. In fact, I worry about everything all the time. I used to be a punk. All I wanted to do was tear everything down, and that was so much easier.
T. C. Boyle
I love performing in front of an audience. I like the questions; I like controversy. T. C. Boyle
I tell jokes, and I have fun, but I tend to worry about everybody and everything throughout the entire world. T. C. Boyle
I like to live in my own mind, regardless of everyone and everything, working out the intimate puzzles that are my stories and novels. T. C. Boyle
I think the way to be a writer is to experience things, certainly, and be open to things, but at some point to become dedicated to the craft of writing and to create a stable environment for that writing to occur in.
T. C. Boyle
Look at Sam Beckett. Most depressed man who ever lived, but he sure was funny. T. C. Boyle
Sometimes if something is entertaining and amusing, people tend to think that it doesn't have the depth of something that's dramatic. I don't think that's true. T. C. Boyle
This is the beauty of fiction. We may not like these characters, but we inhabit them. T. C. Boyle
I'm just kind of fascinated by how we can deny that we are animals and what our impact on the other animals is like, and how quixotic we can be in trying to assess what we've done in trying to correct it.
T. C. Boyle
I envy Jesus because he's dead. T. C. Boyle
The beauty of American law is you cannot slander anybody who is dead. This is not true in all countries. T. C. Boyle
I hope to stay light on my feet, to work in many modes, to seek inspiration always, and avoid the fatal. But, as we all know, it is the price of life to burn out, both metaphorically and literally. T. C. Boyle
I think the best endings bring you back in rather than close things off with absolute finality. I'm not saying they necessarily have to be ambiguous, but we don't always need to know what happens when everyone wakes up tomorrow morning. T. C. Boyle
I'm enslaved to writing to the point where I sacrifice almost everything else. T. C. Boyle
As humans, we all want our own island. Of course, the truth is, we're never going to get it.T. C. Boyle
I think that's what art is about: to provoke you. It helps me make sense of a senseless universe because I become the god of the story. I create it, and I see it in all its lineaments in my own way and can control it - in a world in which everything else is out of control. T. C. Boyle
T. Coraghessan Boyle
“I've always been a quitter. I quit the Boy Scouts, the glee club, the marching band. Gave up my paper route, turned my back on the church, stuffed the basketball team. I dropped out of college, sidestepped the army with a 4-F on the grounds of mental instability, went back to school, made a go of it, entered a Ph.D. program in nineteenth-century British literature, sat in the front row, took notes assiduously, bought a pair of horn-rims, and quit on the eve of my comprehensive exams. I got married, separated, divorced. Quit smoking, quit jogging, quit eating red meat. I quit jobs: digging graves, pumping gas, selling insurance, showing pornographic films in an art theater in Boston. When I was nineteen I made frantic love to a pinch-faced, sack-bosomed girl I'd known from high school. She got pregnant. I quit town.”
[Peter Wild Interviews TC Boyle, 3:AM Magazine, June 2003]”
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― T.C. Boyle, The Tortilla Curtain
― T.C. Boyle, A Friend of the Earth
(Barnes & Noble Review, email dialogue with Cameron Martin, Feb. 09, 2009)”
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― T.C. Boyle, Without a Hero: Stories
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From "Love of my Life”
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― T.C. Boyle, Drop City
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― T.C. Boyle, The Best American Short Stories 2015
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'It's been fun,' she said.
'Yes,' I said, taking her hand.
She was wearing gloves.”
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― T.C. Boyle, If the River Was Whiskey
"What thing?"
"The mesh. My mesh."
She shrugged. "I tossed it."
"Tossed it? Where? What do you mean?"
In the next moment I was in the kitchen, flipping open the lid of the trash can, only to find it empty. "You mean outside?" I shouted. "In the dumpster?"
When I came thundering back into the room, she still hadn't moved. "Jesus, what were you thinking? That was mine. I wanted that. I wanted to keep it."
Her lips barely moved. "It was dirty.”
― T.C. Boyle, Stories II: The Collected Stories of T. Coraghessan Boyle, Volume II
― T.C. Boyle, If the River Was Whiskey
― T.C. Boyle, When the Killing's Done
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― T.C. Boyle, The Women
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T.C. Boyle
As we get closer to the most momentous election in American history and my waking dreams are filled with images of the Bogeymen who want to take power and dictate to us how to think and what we can and cannot do, I must report that I am once again walking, however tentatively, sans crutches or knee brace, all the better to make my escape if the worst should happen. Which it won’t, will it? Can anybody really want a mendacious, heartless, mentally crippled felon at the helm, one who has promised to dismantle the Constitution and rule with an iron fist, jailing all those who oppose or even speak out again him? No. No way. Not in my country. No, no, no.
What am I doing about it? Drugging, boozing, napping in the sun, limping up the road at dawn with the dog at my side and coming home again to worry over the keyboard. No new work yet in sight, though I’m pursuing several leads—I’d like to complete the next book of stories and find the subject and theme of my next novel, but, of course, I live in terror and my usual resources of joy have been severely abridged by my accident. What can I tell you? Day by day, inch by inch, I’m getting stronger? Well, yeah, okay, but to what end?
This is called despair. Yes, I can look forward to the joyous delirium of November sixth and the new work that will arrive to stimulate me—and walking, walking once again along the beach in the company of the dog—but for now, I find myself dissolving in a puddle of broken-legged worry day after day. My readers help. My family helps. The dog. The cat. I tell myself I’m going to be all right. So is my country. First, we cut the head off the snake and then we break out the bandages.
What joy, what insuperable joy! Crack the champagne! Shout hosannas! Throw away the crutches and crank the stereo! As Solomon Burke sang, “Life is for the living,” and right now, right here, as I get to the bottom of this page, I feel I’m definitely in that camp, alive, alive still, and limping into the glorious future. I’m not complaining. Not a bit. Uh-uh. Never.