Sammi “siren” Sadicario

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1. Learning to Feel My Voice Instead of Just Hearing It
One of the most profound lessons I’ve learned is the importance of feeling my voice, not just hearing it. So many people ask me, “Can anyone learn to sing?” My answer is always yes—they’re just out of tune. Retuning yourself isn’t just about singing; it transforms your mental health, financial stability, relationships, and overall sense of empowerment. It leads to deeper family connections, fewer arguments, and more alignment in life.

For me, this truth revealed itself after a traumatic car accident. To process the fear and trauma, I went home and danced to release the trapped energy in my body. Then Vienna by Billy Joel came on the radio, and something shifted. For the first time, I stopped just hearing my voice—I felt it. I began to sing and was perfectly in tune, feeling the resonance in the room and the vibration in my body. That moment changed everything. I gained massive control over my voice while experiencing complete freedom. This is the level of connection I wish for everyone: a voice that vibrates with empowerment, clarity, and confidence.

How I do it: I start by connecting with my body. I practice humming or singing, focusing on how it feels rather than how it sounds. I build awareness of the energy my voice creates in a room. Singing isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection.

2. The Skill of Empowered Self-Talk
Your words create your reality. One of the most transformative skills I’ve developed is the ability to turn negative thoughts into empowering ones. I teach a method that uses the words you speak to shift your mindset: Change your words, change your life. Practicing this has made me happier, more confident, and more harmonious in my relationships.

Empowered self-talk is a game-changer. It helps me quiet my inner critic, communicate with authenticity, and lead with kindness. This skill has helped me reduce conflict, attract better opportunities, and become a magnet for the life I want. The way I speak to myself determines the energy I bring into every room, every conversation, and every decision.

How I do It: When I notice a negative thought, I reframe it into something constructive. For example, instead of saying, “I’ll never figure this out,” I’ll tell myself, “I’m learning as I go.” I focus on the words I speak to myself, knowing they hold the power to shape my reality.

3. Taking Imperfect Action
Whether on stage or in life, I’ve learned that the most impactful moments happen when I let go of perfection and trust the flow. This has been true in my singing, my speaking, and even in my relationships. Some of my greatest breakthroughs came from taking messy, imperfect action—and allowing myself to be seen anyway.

When I’m tuned into myself and the energy of play, I lead with empathy, confidence, and charisma. I don’t try to control the moment; instead, I focus on feeling it and responding authentically. This is where true connection happens.

How I do it: I stop waiting to feel “ready.” I start with what I have and allow myself to take imperfect action. Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, sharing my art, or having a tough conversation, I trust myself to figure it out as I go. Messy action is better than no action, and it’s often the only way I grow.

Bonus: Resilience
Underlying all of these skills is the foundation of resilience. Life will test you—through failures, challenges, and unexpected setbacks. The ability to rise again, to recalibrate, and to stay committed to your growth is what sets you apart. I’ve fallen on my face (in public, and one time in front of 900 people) countless times. I laugh it off, and keep going.

What I do for myself: I celebrate small wins, forgive myself when I stumble, and always return to the practices that ground me—whether it’s singing, journaling, or dancing through life. Resilience isn’t about never falling; it’s about always getting back up.