Dorianne Laux

You’ve traveled this far on the back of every mistake.     Dorianne Laux  "The Book of Men". Book by Dorianne Laux, February 28, 2011.     

 Good writing works from a simple premise: your experience is not yours alone, but in some sense a metaphor for everyone's.  Dorianne Laux, Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.21, W. W. Norton & Company     

A poem is like a child; at some point we have to let it go and trust that it will make its own way in the world.     Dorianne Laux     Children, Let It Go, World     Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.188, W. W. Norton & Company    

We're all writing out of a wound, and that's where our song comes from. The wound is singing. We're singing back to those who've been wounded. Dorianne Laux   "Road Trip". Interview with Ali Liebegott, logger.believermag.com. April 2, 2013.     

That's how it is sometimes--God comes to your window, all bright light and black wings, and you're just too tired to open it.   Dorianne Laux (1994). “What we carry: poems”, BOA Editions Ltd.     

I write to invite the voices in, to watch the angel wrestle, to feel the devil gather on its haunches and rise. I write to hear myself breathing. I write to be doing something while I wait to be called to my appointment with death. I write to be done writing. I write because writing is fun.     Dorianne Laux    

Maybe it's what we don't say/that saves us.  Dorianne Laux (1994). “What we carry: poems”, BOA Editions Ltd.    

If trees could speak they wouldn't  Dorianne Laux     

Every good poem asks a question, and every good poet asks every question.     Dorianne Laux     

Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.23, W. W. Norton & Company  

I don’t worry anymore about writing. There are times that I go through dry periods. I never go through a block. I’m always writing, but there are times where I’m just not on my game, and I’ll use that time to read some new poets, go see some art, walk down to the river and just stare at it, or have a conversation with my sister, or whatever—do whatever it is that I do in my life, hoping that I’ll get filled up enough. And something will happen, some juggling will happen and boom. Dorianne Laux     

Writing and reading are the only ways to find your voice. It won't magically burst forth in your poems the next time you sit down to write, or the next; but little by little, as you become aware of more choices and begin to make them -- consciously and unconsciously -- your style will develop. Dorianne Laux        Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.116, W. W. Norton & Company     

Death comes to me again, a girl in a cotton slip, barefoot, giggling. It’s not so terrible she tells me, not like you think, all darkness and silence. There are windchimes and the smell of lemons, some days it rains, but more often the air is dry and sweet. I sit beneath the staircase built from hair and bone and listen to the voices of the living. I like it, she says, shaking the dust from her hair, especially when they fight, and when they sing.     Dorianne Laux       Dorianne Laux (2000). “Smoke: poems”, BOA Editions Ltd.     

Every poem I write falls short in some important way. But I go on trying to write the one that won’t.     Dorianne Laux     

I have always loved too much, or not enough.     Dorianne Laux (1994). “What we carry: poems”, BOA Editions Ltd.   

Who you are contributes to your poetry in a number of important ways, but you shouldn't identify with your poems so closely that when they are cut, you're the one that bleeds. Dorianne Laux, Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (1997). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.197, W. W. Norton & Company   

We continue to speak, if only in whispers,     to something inside us that longs to be named.     Dorianne Laux   Dorianne Laux (2011). “The Book of Men: Poems”, p.70, W. W. Norton & Company          

If you want to be a writer in the world you really have to sit down and say, 'Why do I want to do this and why was I drawn to it to begin with?' And keep reminding yourself to return to that original impulse.     Dorianne Laux, "Road Trip". Interview with Ali Liebegott, logger.believermag.com. April 2, 2013.   

I'm not the only person in the world who is suffering. I'm trying to talk to the world, responding to those voices. Dorianne Laux, "Road Trip". Interview with Ali Liebegott, logger.believermag.com. April 2, 2013.  

The more that accrues, the more depth, weight, and breadth we can bring to the poems, which we then need to throw overboard so we don't sink.     Dorianne Laux     

You are not your poetry. Your self-esteem shouldn't depend on whether you publish, or whether some editor or writer you admire thinks you're any good.     Dorianne Laux     

  Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). 

“The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.196, W. W. Norton & Company     

    When you have worked with people all day who have so little and struggle to make it stretch, who live outside the rarefied, you are humbled.     Dorianne Laux    

   The changes that have occurred in poetry have been minor when you look at it over the scale of human time. It's like a rose, maybe a hybrid with color and size differentials, but the same genus, plucked from the same original blowsy family.     Dorianne Laux     

    I try to avoid calling myself a poet because I think that's something someone else has to call you. It's like bragging.     Dorianne Laux     "Road Trip". Interview with Ali Liebegott, logger.believermag.com. April 2, 2013.     

   Joseph [Millar] is much more disciplined than I am. He's up every morning meditating, then he writes, and he reads throughout the day. He probably reads ten books to my two and writes twice as much as I do.     Dorianne Laux     

    Poetry is an intimate act. It's about bringing forth something that's inside you--whether it is a memory, a philosophical idea, a deep love for another person or for the world, or an apprehension of the spiritual. It's about making something, in language, which can be transmitted to others--not as information, or polemic, but as irreducible art.     Dorianne Laux     Spiritual, Art, Memories     Kim Addonizio, Dorianne Laux (2010). “The Poet's Companion: A Guide to the Pleasures of Writing Poetry”, p.22, W. W. Norton & Company