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Friday, June 27, 2025

Tracy Chapman

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Marcus Aurelius

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Alex Padilla @AlexPadilla4CA · 18m The Supreme Court just cracked the door open for Trump’s dangerous push to end birthright citizenship. This isn’t just an attack on immigrant families—it’s an attack on the Constitution itself. Let’s be clear: ending birthright citizenship would gut the 14th Amendment and erase a core American value.

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Carol Burnett

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Willie Handler: Food Within a Holocaust Family Can Have a Different Meaning (A Jew Lost in the Wilderness Jun 26, 2025)

https://williehandler.substack.com/p/food-within-a-holocaust-family-can

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“It was not curiosity that killed the goose who laid the golden egg, but an insatiable greed that devoured common sense.” ― E.A. Bucchianeri, Brushstrokes of a Gadfly

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“Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends.” ― Author-Poet Aberjhani, Journey through the Power of the Rainbow: Quotations from a Life Made Out of Poetry

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Make a silk purse of a sow's ear

Etymology  Coined by Stephen Gosson in 1579 in the book The Ephemerides of Phialo: Deuided Into Three Bookes p62v Verb  make a silk purse of a sow's ear (third-person singular simple present makes a silk purse of a sow's ear, present participle making a silk purse of a sow's ear, simple past and past participle made a silk purse of a sow's ear)    

  (idiomatic) To produce something refined, admirable, or valuable from something which is unrefined, unpleasant, or of little or no value.         1884, Charlotte M. Yonge, chapter 22, in The Armourer's Prentices:              "He always was an unmannerly cub," said Master Headley, as he read the letter. "Well, I've done my best to make a silk purse of a sow's ear!"          1997 May 23, Joanna Biddolph, “Mandelson has become PR’s new role model”, in PRWeek, UK, retrieved 16 Dec. 2009:              PR people can make a silk purse of a sow's ear.          2001 January 6, Penny Jackson, “House & Home: On your marks. Get set. Sell!”, in Independent, UK, retrieved 16 Dec. 2009:              A smart development can make a silk purse of a sow's ear, and the effect on older properties can be quite dramatic.  

Usage notes      Often expressed in the proverbial form: you can't make a silk purse of a sow's ear.  Translations to produce something refined, from something which is unrefined      Chinese:          Mandarin: 化腐朽為神奇 / 化腐朽为神奇 (huà fǔxiǔ wéi shénqí)      Finnish: tehdä jotain hyödyllistä (+ elative)     German: aus Scheiße Geld machen (de) (profane)     Italian: cavare sangue da una rapa, cavar sangue da una rapa     Russian: сде́лать из дерьма́ конфе́тку pf (sdélatʹ iz derʹmá konfétku)  See also      put lipstick on a pig     polish a turd  

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Idioms about Idiots: He Doesn't Know Shit from Shinola

 

  • Almost always used in negative constructions to describe someone's ignorance or stupidity, such as: He doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground.
  • find one's ass with both hands and a flashlight
  • (archaic) know B from a battledore
  • know one's ass from one's elbow
  • know one's head from a hole in the ground
  • know one's head from one's ass
  • know shit from Shinola
  • know what one is about
  • know which end is up
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Rep. Jamie Raskin True, it hits hard when you realize U.S. politicians want to impose the Taliban’s agenda: banning abortion rights & birth control, imposing official prayer & religious dogma in the schools, banning books considered offensive by the state & criminalizing the LGBTQ+ community.

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1 Hippo!

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Found in the Street


 

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Prof. Feynman The thing that doesn't fit is the thing that's the most interesting: the part that doesn't go according to what you expected.

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Love Potion Number Nine Song by The Searchers ‧ 1963: when I kissed a cop down on Thirty-Fourth and Vine

I took my troubles down to Madame Ruth
You know that gypsy with the gold-capped tooth
She's got a pad down on Thirty-Fourth and Vine
Sellin' little bottles of Love Potion Number Nine
I told her that I was a flop with chics
I've been this way since 1956
She looked at my palm and she made a magic sign
She said "What you need is Love Potion Number Nine"
She bent down and turned around and gave me a wink
She said "I'm gonna make it up right here in the sink"
It smelled like turpentine, it looked like Indian ink
I held my nose, I closed my eyes, I took a drink
I didn't know if it was day or night
I started kissin' everything in sight
But when I kissed a cop down on Thirty-Fourth and Vine
He broke my little bottle of Love Potion Number Nine
I held my nose, I closed my eyes, I took a drink
I didn't know if it was day or night
I started kissin' everything in sight
But when I kissed a cop down on Thirty-Fourth and Vine
He broke my little bottle of Love Potion Number Nine
Love Potion Number Nine
Love Potion Number Nine
Love Potion Number Nine
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Feynman

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Prof. Feynman You do not find a happy life. You make it.

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Pablo Neruda

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Writing is selection. Just to start a piece of writing you have to choose one word and only one from more than a million in the language. Now keep going. What is your next word? Your next sentence, paragraph, section, chapter? Your next ball of fact. You select what goes in and you decide what stays out. At base you have only one criterion: If something interests you, it goes in—if not, it stays out. That’s a crude way to assess things, but it’s all you’ve got.

JOHN McPHEE

 

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After a mostly dry Friday, next storm arrives, extending rainy streak to 16th weekend in Boston

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Celebrated Roxbury restaurant may close after manager detained by ICE on Father’s Day

Cecelia Lizotte (left) with her daughter Ericka and her brother Paul Dama. Lizotte said her two daughters have been in tears ever since their uncle was detained by ICE on Father's Day.Cecelia Lizotte

The owner of a popular West African restaurant in Roxbury may suspend operations after its “beloved” manager was detained by immigration agents last week.

Paul Dama, who oversees operations at Suya Joint in Nubian Square, was driving to church in Brockton on Father’s Day, when he was pulled over and detained, according to Cecelia Lizotte, Dama’s sister and the restaurant’s chef and owner.

“At first, I thought it was like April Fool’s,” Lizotte said in an interview. “It’s like, I just woke up one day and my brother is nowhere to be found.”

Now, Lizotte said she’s thinking about closing the restaurant, at least temporarily, while she deals with her brother’s immigration case.

“I‘m running back and forth, trying to get the information that the [immigration] attorneys need, and then my establishment also needs me,” she said. “So I’m on the verge of either feeling defeated on a daily basis or just breaking down. ... It’s a lot for one person to navigate.“

Dama, 46, is being held in Dover, N.H., according to a public ICE database. Lizotte said a bond hearing scheduled for July 3 will determine whether he can walk free. His lawyer could not be reached for comment.



A fundraiser launched for Dama’s legal fees had raised nearly $20,000 as of Thursday afternoon.

“This sudden and painful event has shaken our family to the core, and we are currently navigating both emotional and legal challenges surrounding his detention,” the post reads. “Because of this, we are taking time to reflect and reassess what comes next for Suya Joint.”



“While we are not closing at this time, we are seriously considering what’s best for our team, our mission, and our family,” it continued.

Lizotte, who emigrated from Nigeria in 1999, opened the first Suya Joint restaurant in Roslindale in 2012 before moving to Roxbury four years later. The West African eatery is inspired by an establishment run by Lizotte’s grandmother, in her native village of Qua’an Pan.

The restaurant has been recognized as a semifinalist for the prestigious James Beard Award, as well as by Eater Boston and Boston Magazine.

Suya Joint recently opened a second location in Providence and employs 32 people across both locations, Lizotte said. Dama also sometimes works at the Rhode Island location.

Chef Cecelia Lizotte opened her second Suya Joint location in downtown Providence, focusing on Nigerian spices, stews, and fufu.Jonathan Wiggs/Globe Staff

Dama immigrated to the United States from Nigeria in 2019 to join his sister and her family. He has an ongoing asylum case and has authorization to work legally in the country, his sister said.

Aside from working as a manager, Dama also helps out in the kitchen.

“He’s a jack of all trades,” Lizotte said. “When Paul walks in to the establishment, if a printer is broken, he fixes it. ‘Oh, the sink is not going down.’ He finds a way to fix it.”

Dama is also trained as a social worker. Alongside his duties at the restaurant, he most recently worked at a care home, attending to five elderly men with developmental disabilities.

“He’s kind, intelligent, hard working, one of our best employees,” said Cathy Conrade, a social worker who worked with Dama until earlier this year. “I’ve been around so long, I’ve met lots of wonderful people, but he really stands out as one of the one of the best.”



Conrade said Dama and many immigrants like him come from highly qualified professional backgrounds, but settle for work in the US that is seen as menial and unglamorous.

Chef Cecelia Lizotte opened her second Suya Joint location in downtown Providence. The original Suya Joint is in Nubian Square.Jonathan Wiggs/Globe Staff

“They’ll take roles that, quite frankly, in our country, are devalued,” she said. “Dealing with human beings has not become an elevated position yet. So they will take work that other people won’t do, and do it well, and do three jobs all at the same time.”

Agnes Hodge, of Dorchester, described Dama as her adopted son. Hodge, 84, said in a phone interview she knew him from their time living in Nigeria. Dama acted as a caregiver for her in the US, helping Hodge buy groceries and other items — until he was abruptly detained.

Since then, she hasn’t been eating or sleeping — partly out of concern, and partly out of necessity, she said.

“Nobody else has come by,” Hodge said. “My life is on hold.”

Lizotte said the news of her brother’s detention was “really devastating” for the rest of the close-knit family.

“My daughter works at Shaw’s, and it’s almost like each time she has a five minute break, she’d call me in tears,” she said. “And I have to find a way to just be like, ‘Please be strong. I know you’re at work. I’m so sorry that I gave this type of news to you. But wipe your tears and pray and be hopeful.’”

Lizotte said her brother is scared because of the conditions, adding that several migrants in the same facility have been held there for months.



Dama faced two separate charges of operating under the influence last year, according to court records. On both instances, he was allegedly found asleep in his car, which was stopped on a public road with the engine running.

The charges were disposed after Dama paid $1,200 in fines, had his license temporarily suspended, and was placed on year-long probation through December 2025, per court records.

Despite his legal issues, several friends and family members submitted letters to support his immigration case.

Jeffrey Lizotte, Cecelia’s husband, said in a letter that Dama had been kidnapped and held for ransom in Nigeria before coming to the US. He added that his brother-in-law is college-educated, a practicing Catholic, and a fluent English speaker, whose moral character is “beyond reproach.” Dama’s misdemeanor offenses, he added, do ”not merit detainment and deportation, in my view.”

“I fully understand the need to keep our borders secure from those who wish to harm our people or destroy our culture,” he wrote. “But I can tell you in all sincerity that is not who Paul is. He is a good person who always puts the needs of others first. He does not deserve to be going through this harrowing experience.”

Massachusetts State Senator Liz Miranda, a Boston Democrat who represents Roxbury, also wrote a letter of support for Dama, as did Rhode Island State Representative David Morales, who described Dama as an “exemplary individual” who has “built a life for himself and his family.”

“Even with all the challenges he’s had to face, he’s continued being a positive member of our community,” Morales wrote. “Paul poses no threat to our community, and I’m concerned that he is currently detained at a detention facility in New Hampshire as if he does.”



Jeremiah Manion of the Globe Staff contributed reporting.

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