Controlling parents may restrict access to aunts and uncles to maintain strict authority, limit outside influence, or manage perceived threats to their parenting style, often isolating the child from extended family support

  While parents have legal authority over visitation, they are not obligated to include relatives, though this can deprive children of emotional, developmental, and social benefits. 

Common Reasons for Restricting Access

• Boundary Setting: Parents may believe relatives are disrespectful, toxic, or unsafe for their children.
• Control and Autonomy: A desire to prevent, or "shield," children from differing opinions, family gossip, or influence.
• Conflict/Drama: Past disputes or disagreements over parenting styles.
• Protecting Parental Authority: Limiting relationships that might undermine the parent-child dynamic. 

Impact on Children and Family

• Isolation: Children miss out on nurturing, supportive relationships that provide emotional stability, social skills, and resilience.
• Loss of Support System: Aunts and uncles often act as trusted mentors or, in crises, temporary guardians.
• Strained Relationships: The restriction can create long-term rifts within the extended family.