Power Plays, Gatekeepers and Group Dynamics

I generally dislike groups, parties, gatherings, meetings, and group email.

I prefer people one at a time, at best.

My original family is all about power and bureaucracy of the group.

My siblings never matured enough to learn that there are other ways to behave than like our parents.

They are severely emotionally traumatized from decades of narcissistic abuse at the hands of their parents.

Now the next generation is suffering.

I find, the only way to break the cycle is to communicate to the best of your ability with humans of your choosing, one at a time.