Victim Identity

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201002/victim-identity-im-not-okay-youre-more-not-okay

Steven Stosny, Ph.D.
Anger in the Age of Entitlement
Victim Identity: I'm Not Okay, You're More Not Okay
Victim identity beats no identity at all.

Two subtly intertwined evils plague modern relationships. The first is emotional abuse of loved ones. The second is victim identity. They are intertwined because one causes the other.