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Man Up
What You Lose When You Don’t Drink
Jan 09, 20204:00 PM
it’s easy to get caught up in what will people think. But at the end of the day, you know, it doesn’t it doesn’t matter.
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And it was like it was fun. So that’s one that’s one of the things that I do is I try to go and have, you know, mocktails. And because if people if people at least see a drink in your hand, they usually don’t ask. And then the second piece is it’s a lot it’s a lot harder. But it comes with with being comfortable and at peace with who you are when when you can find that level of peace.

S31: And know who you are.

S23: You can go anywhere and you can do anything and you can be around anybody because you know that like. It’s not you’re not what you say you are, you’re what you do.

S33: You know, I’m saying.

S32: I learned to say no, if I if I don’t want to go somewhere like you were saying, you didn’t go to your your work party. If I don’t want to go somewhere I don’t like.

S30: That’s a big deal for me. Like, it’s so.

S32: It’s so freeing to tell somebody. Now, I don’t know why. Because I don’t. I don’t want to. Like you can tell me. No.

S35: It’s so liberating. It is like it’s my new favorite thing is to tell people no. And they cancel plans. I love it. It’s great.
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