Why I don't trust People in Groups

When people die, or are born I try to let others know when I suspect they haven't heard. When people die or get born in my family nobody tells me. There's nothing worse than group behavior. Perhaps I feel this way because I am an extreme introvert but also I was abused in front of my extended family on holidays and NOBODY came to my rescue. I will never trust groups. Therefore totems, religions, political parties, and committees, will not have me joining and flag waving under any circumstances.