grow up! get strong!

Age 65, 66, 74, and still trying to please abusive narcissistic deceased parents. Age 38, 39, 53 and still trying to please narcissistic parents. No matter, grow up, and get strong!

Why did I know at age 13 it was hopeless to try for acceptance or approval from my awful parents? That was a stroke of luck. I started collecting small cast iron frying pans at flea markets and planning my escape.